Edgars Blog November 2008

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Week 44
Oct - Nov

27th-2nd

Fall break at school so the kids have been home all week -- except for Ellen and a friend who went up to Umeå to see her Aunt Nathalie (who incidently is expecting!). 

On Wednesday Mireille was working but I took the two smallest and our new 13 year old 'Maria' to a Water World facility in a near by city. Seeing it was fall break, the place was crowded -- so you can imagine me trying to keep track of my three in the moving swarm of folks (of every form, shape, shade and size) - but the kids thought it was fun!!

Mireille was off work for 4 days the end of the week .. and as usual had  filled these days with plans! Friday she had invited a childhood friend and family for supper, that she hadn't seen for a few years. They only live a few cities away, but we found it interesting to think about how time in genuine friendship seems to surge and receed to fit into other aspects of practical reality. - This doesn't reflect on the value of the  friendship - and when we met again, it was simply picking up where we left off - nothing seemed to have been lost!!

Saterday evening Mireille invited some neighbors in -- and (she decided) that a single neighbor man and I would make a fall pot of stew for us all to eat together -- so on Friday he and I drove into town and bought some ingredients that we figured would make a tasty pot. Fortunatly he is a good cook ..

Rebecka and Niklas celebrate a 1 year anniversay of their relationship .. and went out to a resort on the coast. -- Ellen returned from Umeå on Wednesday -- and then went to Gothenburg to spend some time with Emma. Alfons and some of his friends are busy building some BMX bike ramps in one of the unused buildings on our property here.

 

Thoughts

One of the harder aspects of our work with youth and children placed with us by social services is our feelings for mothers that are forced by circumstance (and by social services) to come and turn over their children to us. However horrible the underlying reasons may be -- the tears of separation are most often excruciatingly genuine at the time.

Regardless what ugly failures may lie behind the legal decisions that have led up to this separation .. it is hard to see anything but beauty in a heart, when  we  have the privelage of seeing it through the prisim of a mothers honest teardrop.

Impressions

"Air From County Derry" - Ireland
The words before "Danny Boy" which is written to the same tune.
Incidently this was sung at Princess Dianas funneral, as was Elton Johns "Candle in the wind"

Recorded by Helmet Lotti (Belgian singer)