30 years ago, you and I began something
together that we had no idea where it would lead. I supose nobody
ever does. However, one thing was special for us that day ..Amongst
the uncertain hopes for a foggy future we may have had then, we made
a commitment that whatever should develope in this future that was
before us, we pledged to do it together-- with each other. And we
have … for 30 years!
We were well aware that some around us
had doubts as to where this commitment would lead … and we will have
to admit that pessimism wasn’t completely unfounded. Mireille you
were 21 years old .. there was 22 years between us, my immigrant
background was hardly a plus … a 6 year old daughter in the picture
… as well as a strange religious involvement etc -- What were the
chances?
Now 30 years later … I can’t think of a
more wonderful and amazing journey than this one has been -- as we
have shared it together Mireille… not only the journey itself with
its hills, and valleys – good weather and bad etc. It has been a
journey that we have tried our best to navigate together, As well,
life has given us some wonderful real-life products of this journey
together – Wonderful treasures created through our lives together
that today are more valueable to both of us than life itself. I hope
that you all here will know what I’m refering to … and it’s not this
house!
Think, if we had known 30 years ago
where that begining would lead … Looking back I think we can
remember it as not without its pain, uncertainty and frustration
---- but without a doubt our today is well beyond the finest dreams
we may have had at that time.
Ok, I know that 30 years is not the
destination .. For me I would like to make the same pledge that I
did 30 years ago … to let life lead our lives where ever it will,
but to do it together with you Mireille. Some life factors are
considerably more stable for us now than then … some other factors
still place question marks on what turns in the road may be ahead –
but we will deal with them as they come …. And most of all, we will
deal with them together!
Just one other thing I want to share with my children. I was given a
beautiful heritage in the very last minutes that I spent with my dad
12 years ago .. I can still close my eyes and hear the smack as he
kissed my mother good night … and even today with my eyes closed I
can see her fingers as she squeezed his thumb as we left. The finest
thing I would like to leave with my children is this same assurance
that I loved their mother. Not that I worshiped her .. not that I
agreed with her always … but that I loved her.
We both love each of you .. not
collectively but individually … and our love is not as 1 love,
it is as 2 …. It is individually to each of you from each of us,
each in our own way,